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Butterflies and Flowers ~ {Yarn Along}

Monarch Baby Blanket

My stitching and reading seems to have a Spring theme this week. The blanket I’m still making my way across {about 3/4 done} is the Monarch Baby Blanket from One Skein Wonders for Babies. Still loving that turquoise.

The book I’m breezing through is The Language of Flowers. It was recommended by someone, somewhere along the way {I lose track of these things because I’m always in search of good book recommendations!}, and I’m absolutely loving it. Interwoven into the story is the main protagonist’s usage of the Victorian meaning of flowers in the bouquets she makes for clients and in gifts to others. She is an adult foster child, come-of-age, so the story is heavy but worthwhile. I don’t want to give away too much.

Monarch Baby Blanket

Stop by Ginny’s blog to find other great projects in the Yarn Along link-up! {Also, there’s a wonderful podcast at Fountain of Carrots this week featuring Ginny chatting about her conversion and a little glimpse at what life looks like in her household. Check it out!}

In Search of Mercy — The Best You Can

in search of mercyThoughts of mercy and forgiveness keep invading my headspace in this Jubilee Year of Mercy. I’m sure it could be attributed to the plentitude of graces being poured out in this Extraordinary Year, but I do often hear His message of Mercy resonating frequently throughout these days.

I recently finished Brené Brown’s latest book, Rising Strong, which I’ve been waiting for from the library for 6 months +. {It’s a hotcake right now!} She’s a researcher who speaks on the subject of shame and living wholeheartedly. Her thesis is roughly something like this: Although many consider shame a negative experience, it is, in fact, an avenue to growth, to living in a more wholehearted fashion.

When speaking of shame, I was always return to thoughts of John Paul II’s “naked without shame” that he speaks of in the Theology of the Body. He says that before the Fall, Adam and Eve were “naked without shame”, that they were able to see each other in the fullness of who each was without any desire to “use” the other for their own pleasure or gain. Shame came into the picture because, with the Fall, there was now a tendency to view the other person as a means to an end, a means of use, not as the gift that they are.

Shame serves the purpose of guarding the gift, of guarding the goodness in each of us that is now capable of being misappropriated. We feel a sense of shame when either we sense another might be reacting wrongly to what we share, or even when we ourselves might be not loving/appreciating the goodness within us the right way.

Shame also appears when we see one who does not regard the gift of themselves or another in the right fashion, behaving in a manner that does not reflect goodness. It raises our hackles to see someone behave in such an abominable manner.

As Brené points out, our reaction to another is often an awareness of this related fault in ourselves. We feel shame at their behavior because we recognize the tendency in ourselves, which, in turn, can make us act out in our own shameful manner. But, she suggests, a better reaction to the shame we feel should be to take this opportunity to recognize the shame for what it is and grow into a better person because of it.

The opportunity for forgiveness often comes from a place of shame. Hurt caused by another certainly causes us shame. Being used instead of being viewed or treated as the gift that we are, as the goodness we possess, brings up that place of shame. That “nakedness” has been rejected and misused in one way or another. One response is to wallow in that shame and hurt. Another, and better, response, is to seek forgiveness and growth from the bad encounter.

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One of the things that struck me while reading her book, was an anecdote she related regarding an encounter she had with a roommate at a conference she was attending. This roommate was chosen for her; she didn’t know what to expect. Upon entering the room for the first time, she encountered her roommate engaging in some quite unsavory behavior.

Her reaction was shame. Her reaction was disgust. Her reaction was anger. She began lashing out at others because of her feelings of shame.

She recognized this feeling and sought to slow it down and heal from it. In speaking to her therapist, the therapist suggested this to her: Perhaps the roommate was doing the best she could at that moment in time.

My initial reaction to this suggestion was just like Brené’s — yeah, right! But think: what if in her current state that was all she could muster? That she really wasn’t capable of any better behavior.

This is not to let people off the hook, including oneself, when falling into sinful or disgraceful behavior. We must hold people accountable.

But thinking of this notion that one is doing the best they can at that moment–if I was doing the best I could at that moment–doesn’t that make forgiveness and mercy just a little more accessible? 

When I’m working through the process of forgiving another, one large obstacle is the thought that they didn’t live up to my standards. And maybe they didn’t. Maybe they didn’t live up to their own.

But if I was to give that person grace and consider that what they did was possibly the best they were capable of that moment? Doesn’t that act of generosity make the process of forgiveness just a little bit easier? Doesn’t it make it just a little more accessible when I have that block in my heart that doesn’t want to let go of the hurt they caused me?

As I said before, I’m not suggesting that we not hold another accountable, or that we shouldn’t establish better boundaries {if that needs to happen}, but rather that we give a little grace, a little compassion. I think it would make our hearts a tad lighter and more inclined to complete that process of forgiving another.

And perhaps, even more so, we need to apply this to ourselves when we don’t live up to our own expectations or standards.

I like to think God’s mercy and forgiveness perhaps looks a little like this. He looks past the shame, the hurt, the bad intentions, the pride, etc. and chooses to focus on the good that is always there, the good that He placed in us at creation.

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As the title suggests, Brené’s book is about rising strong when we feel kicked down on our face either by another or by own selves. It is about finding a space to rise from the shame, the hurt, and return to a place of wholeheartedness instead of wallowing in our fragmented state.

“Integration is the soul of rising strong. We have to be whole to be wholehearted.”

God wants this for us. He wants us to be whole, not broken and fragmented. He wants us to be able to rise from whatever has kicked us down — be it the hurt of another or the hurt of own selves.

This Year of Mercy is about rising strong. It is about healing ourselves, healing our relationships, making ourselves whole again, rising from our brokenness. Seeking forgiveness from a place of generosity–considering the actions of another, the actions of own self as the best one is capable of at that moment–will help us on this path of mercy.

Seattle : Delancey

We are closing in on 10 years since my blogging days began. When I first began writing, it was about food. I love to share recipes I developed in my kitchen, but more importantly to share my thoughts on gathering around the table and the influence of food in our every day lives.

Before I began putting words on a screen, there were a handful of others who lit the fire in me to share. Their own words crafted with the greatest care, their images taking me back to good times spent with my loved ones at meals, their recipes inspiring me to drop whatever I was doing the time and get myself to the kitchen. One such writer is Molly Wizenberg. She writes {still, although infrequently} at Orangette. {Lo and behold, I just discovered that she has finally upgraded to a .net address on her website. You know you’ve encountered a good writer when she can hold out with a .blogspot for so long.}

pizza at Delancey

Molly is also the author of two books — A Homemade Life: Stories and Recipes from My Kitchen Table and Delancey: A Man, A Woman, A Restaurant, A Marriage. The first regales with many stories of her childhood, some of the best related to her father whom she adored. It has a lovely collection of recipes to boot. The second tells the story of her and her husband’s first restaurant, Delancey, and how they navigated it’s birth through the first years of their marriage together.

I mentioned this book in an earlier post I wrote back in October. At the time, we were already preparing for our trip to Seattle in early Spring. I had read of Delancey at Molly’s blog, but hadn’t yet gone through the full story of how it came to be. It was great preparation for a visit to the restaurant, which we made a few days into our trip.

Delancey, Seattle

In a quiet corner of Ballard, tucked in a mostly residential area, it gave off the vibe of your local, neighborhood pizzeria at the start. This is not a place you come unless you know about it. We arrived within a half hour of opening, but all the tables had already been claimed. Immediately adjacent is a little bar the couple also started called Essex. We headed there to wait it out.

Seattle is pretty strict about keeping your babies out of bars, so, since the littles were with us, we sat in a small, cordoned off area in order to abide by the letter of the law.

at the kids' bar, Essex

baby in a bar, Essex

Steve and I enjoyed a couple of handcrafted cocktails from their seasonal, rotating menu. We hungrily munched on a bowl of green olives, which even the girls adored {although Lucie lost it all munching too fast down the back of Steve’s sweater}.

handcrafted cocktail Essex

Essex bar

Essex, Seattle

The host from next-door came to retrieve us when a table was ready about an hour later. We savored a well-composed seasonal and locally-sourced salad to quell our rumbling tummies while our pizza was tossed and cooked in the adjacent room.

Delancey menu

my little photographer at Delancey

I took Evey over to watch as the pizza man deftly maneuvered pizzas in and out through a small slit in the wall that housed the wood-fired pizza oven. She was mesmerized.

pizza bar, Delancey

pizza oven, Delancey

We took note of our nearby table mates: a dad, a mom and their preadolescent son that had come by scooter to dinner and were chatting about a variety of things, sharing their interests with one another; a couple, in their twenties, sat opposite talking philosophy and literature.  It was notable to us the intellectual, stimulating conversation we were hearing, rather than the usual banter of the latest celebrity gossip or crude jokes.

I dare to say the atmosphere played a role in the clientele it attracted. Everything about the place was simple, yet sophisticated. Molly and her husband do a superb job of striking the best balance of indulging in the best one could offer while not going overboard with the accoutrements. To us, they exemplified the Seattle vibe and food scene we’ve heard so often about.

I hope we have another chance to return to these two gems, and maybe even their newest creation–Dino’s Tomato Pie–which opened in the Capitol Hill area a few weeks after we left. These two have got a good thing going. Don’t miss them if you ever find yourself in Seattle.

Books I Read in 2015 and Books to Read in 2016

book stack 2015

This year was a good one for books. I enjoyed many across the genres both alone and while reading aloud to the girls. I won’t be doing a round-up of read-alouds {although, perhaps I’ll do a list of favorites} as that would go into the hundreds, but I love glancing over what I’ve read this year and what I would like to read in the coming year. And I would love to hear your recommendations too! {Here’s last year’s post.}

I completed all but one of my books for Modern Mrs. Darcy’s Reading Challenge this year. I’ll include a note next to each book if it was read for that and the category chosen. Following along with the challenge was a great way to expand my interests a bit and be introduced to books I probably never would have come across otherwise. Highly recommend if you’re looking to challenge yourself in the reading department this coming year. {And she’s posted a new one for 2016!} A few friends also followed along and we chatted a bit on Facebook about the books we read each month. It’s even more fun with a group.

Novels

Still Life by Louise Penny {MMD Challenge category: “A book in a genre you don’t typically read”} — Not much for mystery stories, but this author does an amazing job of weaving together the crime and her characters. This is part one of a series. I got my mom hooked {who loves mystery} and she’s read through most of them. I’m adding a couple to this coming year’s reading list.

A God in Ruins by Kate Atkinson — Interesting look at a veteran WWII pilot and his thoughts on the war and modernity.

Rules of Civility by Amor Towles — I really loved this novel which reminded me a lot of The Great Gatsby. I was disappointed to find out that the author is a newbie and doesn’t have anything other than an ebook available. Hopefully, he’ll continue with his talents.

Orphan Train by Christina Baker Kline {MMD Challenge category: “A book your mom loves”} — A seemingly lost piece of American history, the orphan train carried many across the Midwest in the early 1900s. This follows the juxtaposed lives of one such orphan and a modern day orphan when their lives cross. Very interesting read. {more thoughts here}

The Girl on the Train by Paula Hawkins — A slightly creepy mystery novel that pulls you along from engine to caboose. {more thoughts here}

The Royal We by Heather Cocks — I was hesitant to read this after it was recommended to “British Royal fanatics.” Although I love British culture, I certainly don’t fall into that category. I enjoyed it, nonetheless.

The Rosie Project by Graeme Simsion {MMD Challenge category: “A book ‘everyone’ has read but you”} — Silly, quirky characters, but a fun read overall.

All the Light We Cannot See by Anthony Doerr {{MMD Challenge category: “A book that is currently on the bestseller list”} — This one won a Pulitzer Prize and it is worth reading on repeat. So much beauty and depth to this work.

The Light Between Oceans by M. L. Stedman {MMD Challenge category: “A book you chose because of the cover”} — I loved the descriptions in this book and, of course, was captured by a story which takes place by the sea.

Cannery Row by John Steinbeck {MMD Challenge category: “A book you should have read in high school”} — A great portrait of life on Cannery Row in its heyday.

Parenting/Education

The Highly Intuitive Child by Catherine Crawford — Worth a read if you think you yourself or a loved one is blessed with the gift of intuition.

Your Two Year Old: Terrible or Tender by Louise Bates Ames — Recommended by a friend when I was going through a difficult time relating with my two-year old. This book really helps you “see” inside the mind and feelings of a child this age. I will likely read the one for three year olds too.

The Temperament God Gave Your Kids by Art Bennett — I can see this will be a great resource as my children get older in learning how to relate with each child better in regards their temperament.

The Highly Sensitive Person by Elaine Aron — Sensitivity is often seen as something negative, but this author puts it in a positive light and gives helpful tips on how to use it to your advantage and help your children deal with it when it seems overwhelming.

The Homegrown Preschooler: Teaching Your Kids in the Places They Live by Kathy H. Lee {MMD Challenge category: “A book recommended by someone with great taste”} — Starting to think about schooling with Evey, this book gave some great insight into incorporating it into your every day life at home. {Recommended by Elizabeth Foss.}

Parenting with Grace: The Catholic Parents’ Guide to Raising Almost Perfect Kids by Gregory K. Popcak and Lisa Popcak {still reading…} — Another excellent resource book. The Popcaks do a great job of weaving St. John Paul II’s Theology of the Body into parenting.

Self/Home/Family Improvement

The Life Changing Magic of Tidying-Up by Marie Kondo {MMD Challenge category: “A book originally written in a different language”} — Not a fan. Although, I’m definitely inspired to do some purging and organizing this year.

Daring Greatly by Brene Brown — I cannot recommend Brown’s books enough. Especially for the introverts among us, they inspire you to keep going, even when you feel like breaking, to find hope in disappointments.

The Sinner’s Guide to Natural Family Planning by Simcha Fisher — One I’ve been meaning to read for a while and finally picked up after a sale on the Kindle edition. Worth a read if you are in the trenches of NFP. Fischer writing is humorous, yet inspiring.

Simply Tuesday by Emily P. Freeman {MMD Challenge category: “A book published this year”} — One of my favorites this year. In a world of busyness and hustle, the author reminds us to take a step back and especially pay attention to the small moments of life.

Better Than Before by Gretchen Rubin {MMD Challenge category: “A book by a favorite author”} — Review here.

Witness to Love by Ryan and Mary Rose Verret — Review here.

The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown — Short, but sweet and powerful. More thoughts here.

Design Mom: How to Live with Kids: A Room-By-Room Guide by Gabrielle Blair — Not all that I hoped for, but inspiring nonetheless. Blair gives some great ideas for living stylishly with kids at home. {For more inspiration, check out her blog.}

A Million Little Ways by Emily P. Freeman — An excellent book inspiring creativity in whatever place in life you find yourself.

Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End by Atul Gawande — This one is a must-read. It gives a fantastic look at the current state of modern medicine on the end of life and the real questions we should be asking when considering our own death or those we love.

Memoirs

Delancey by Molly Wizenberg {MMD Challenge category: “A book you’ve been meaning to read”} — Review here.

A Circle of Quiet by Madeleine L’Engle — This was an accidental re-read, but I’m so glad I did. My first encounter was about four years ago when I was pregnant with Evelyn. There is so much more I connected with this time being a “seasoned” mom and more serious writer. Highly recommended.

Cookbooks

Make it Ahead by Ina Garten — I love all of Garten’s cookbooks, as they feature simple and fresh recipes. This newest one is a real gem as it has recipes you can make ahead.

Creativity

Capture the Moment by Sarah Wilkerson — Review here.

Blog, Inc.: Blogging for Profit, Passion, and to Create Community by Joy Cho — For me, this was kind of a flop. I was looking for blogging inspiration, but didn’t find much.

Religion

Laudato Si by Pope Francis — There’s lots to say about the pope’s encyclical and I’m hoping to do a re-read and post or two on it this coming year. Read it, if you haven’t.

The Ancient Path: Old Lessons from the Church Fathers for a New Life Today by John Michael Talbot — Review here.

The Man of Villa Tevere by Pilar Urbino {still reading…} — About halfway through this excellent sketch of St. Josemaria’s life when he was living in Rome. I need to finish it up, stat.

Psychology

So You’ve Been Publicly Shamed by Jon Ronson — Kind of disturbing, but worth considering.

 

reading in the car

Hoping to Read in 2016: 

Novels

Little Women by Louisa May Alcott {last of my MMD challenge for 2015: “A book from childhood”}

Gaudy Night by Dorothy Sayers

In This House of Brede by Rumer Godden

The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah

A Fatal Grace by Louise Penny {Inspector Gamache #2}

The Cruelest Month by Louise Penny {Inspector Gamache #3}

Parenting/Education

The Highly Sensitive Child: Helping Our Children Thrive When the World Overwhelms Them by Elaine Aron

How Children Fail by John Holt

Everyday Sacrament: The Messy Grace of Parenting by Laura Kelly Fanucci

Self/Home/Family Improvement

My Fringe Hours: Discovering a More Creative and Fulfilled Life by Jessica N. Turner

Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear by Elizabeth Gilbert

Rising Strong by Brene Brown

One Thousand Gifts by Ann Voskamp

For the Love: Fighting for Grace in a World of Impossible Standards by Jen Hatmaker

Wild in the Hollow: On Chasing Desire and Finding the Broken Way Home by Amber C. Haines

Open Heart, Open Home: The Hospitable Way to Make Others Feel Welcome and Wanted by Karen Burton Mains

The Art of Memoir by Mary Karr

Memoirs

Something Other Than God by Jennifer Fulweiler

Memoirs of a Happy Failure by Alice Von Hildebrand

Acedia and Me: A Marriage, Monks, and a Writer’s Life by Kathleen Norris

Four Seasons in Rome: On Twins, Insomnia and the Biggest Funeral in the History of the World by Anthony Doerr

Cookbooks

Homemade Decadence by Joy Wilson {Joy the Baker}

Date Night In: More Than 120 Recipes to Nourish Your Relationship by Ashley Rodriguez

The Kitchn Cookbook: Recipes, Kitchens and Tips to Inspire Your Cooking by Sara Kate Gillingham and Faith Durand

My Kitchen Year: 136 Recipes That Saved My Life by Ruth Reichl

Politics/Law

Walkable City: How Downtown Can Save America, One Step at a Time by Jeff Speck

Just Mercy: A Story of Justice and Redemption by Bryan Stevenson

 

Any others I should add to my list? What were YOUR favorite reads this year?

Knight’s Hat {Yarn Along}

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grey-knit-hat-needles

Our family has been fighting an evil bug that caught us by surprise as soon as the cool weather hit last week. We’ve been nursing every cold symptom in the book with long naps, steam baths, and hot toddies. Extra time on the couch has found me with my knitting needles in hand for prolonged periods of time, starting the preparations for Christmas gifts.

My sister-in-law mentioned some time ago that my nephew might like a knitted knight’s hat so I searched high and low for a knit one {crochet ones are much easier to find} and stumbled across these “guidelines” for making one. I say that because it is not really a pattern but a few helps in the constructing of such a thing. It wasn’t too hard to figure out so give it a go if you’re interested.

Thankfully, my nephew doesn’t read my blog so I can share some sneak peeks of his gift. 😉

In the reading department this week, I shot through The Royal We which was great for entertainment, but not too much depth. Just what I needed with a cloudy head. Recommended for those who love British culture, especially of the royal variety.

Linking up with Ginny’s Yarn Along

#write31days ~ Day 17: Pretty in Pink

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ballet-leg-warmers-in-progress

This post is doing double duty: photography for #write31days and linking up with Ginny’s Yarn Along for what I’m knitting and reading this week.

I’ve been thinking my little ballerina could use some leg warmers for the cooler temperatures coming up so I started on a set I’ll be giving her for her birthday in a few weeks. This was supposed to be an easy project but I’ve had to frog the whole thing once and significantly back track a second time. I followed the instructions for making an accurate size but when I was about two-thirds through the first one, I realized it was big enough to fit me. Definitely not going to stay up on Evey’s leg. Back to square one I went. I reduced it by 20 stitches and it seems to be the right size now.

I’m knitting in the round on double pointed because I don’t have a circular small enough for something this size {although I keep hearing about a ‘magic loop’ — maybe I should look into this?}. Knitting on double pointed this way is a bit cumbersome so is going a bit slower than I thought. It also caused a second mistake when I knitted the wrong direction, resulting in a large hole that I had to undo at one point.

Hoping the third time is the charm….

 

I started Delancey by Molly Wizenberg a few days ago. She’s a food blogger {Orangette} I’ve been reading for a good, long while {since 2007, I believe}. Located in Seattle, the book is about a restaurant she started there with her husband. She shared a little on her blog back when they were in the midst of it, but I haven’t heard the full story so I’ve been itching to read it. {Bonus: it’s sure to have a great collection of recipes too.} It’s “a book I’ve been meaning to read” so it will be my October choice for the Modern Mrs. Darcy reading challenge. I couldn’t have picked it up at a better time as my husband and I are going with the girls to the Pacific Northwest in February. And you better believe we’ll be stopping by their wood-fired pizza kitchen, and craft cocktail bar next door!

 

#write31days ~ Day 8: Sweet Shades of Violet

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Cast on a sweet, violet baby hat today for a dear friend’s daughter. I haven’t done any hats since last Fall so it is a pleasant surprise how quickly this is coming together after some really long projects. I chose this pattern for a bit of visual interest (instead of the typical stockinette stitch I like to do). I might make some of these later for my daughters too using some of the leftover yarn from their sweaters.

In my reading, I’m slowly working through The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown. Her books always seem to find me at the right time. Her encouragement for wholehearted living is inspiring…but also shows me just how much work I have to do. I believe this is the first of her trio. Her second, Daring Greatly, I wrote a little about here. I’d like to read her newest and recently published, Rising Strong, soon as well.

I was attempting a little practice with my 50mm lens by the glow of the kitchen lights very early in the morning, so please excuse the harsh light in my photos. I love how far you can shorten the depth-of-field with this lens.

 

Linking up with Ginny’s Yarn Along this week. 

Gathering My Thoughts ~ Brought to You By the Letter ‘T’

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Outside my window: The air conditioning is on today and, as usual, California is notorious for joining the autumn game late. It is nearly 90 degrees today. Not feeling like autumn one bit.

dancing-in-the-rain

Listening To: Evey is working on her letter for the week at the white board – ‘T’. It is quiet as Lucie is still resting, so I’m just listening to her organize the markers as she works.

Clothing Myself In: A simple skirt and shirt combo that I threw on before we went shopping this morning.

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Talking With My Children About These Books: We are on the letter ‘T’ this week in our curriculum. There will be lots of discussion about our favorite mode of transportation this week — TRAINS! Our list includes: Steam Train, Dream Train by Sherry Dusky Rinker, Train by Elisha Cooper, How to Train a Train by Jason Carter Eaton, Hey Mr Choo Choo, Where Are You Going?  by Susan Wickberg {one of our all-time favorites}, Tea Rex by Molly Schaar Idle, The Bee Tree by Patricia Polacco, and One Tiny Turtle by Nicola Davies. 

We mixed it up with a few non-train books for some variety, although I doubt the girls would mind if it was ALL ABOUT trains. 😉 One of these days, I need to write a post about our favorite train picture books. I’m pretty sure we have come close to reading them all.

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In My Own Reading: I finished Emily Freeman’s Simply Tuesday last week and I’m planning to join the (in)courage group in reading through it again starting at the beginning of October. Such a great read, one that needs to be pondered several times over. Is anyone else interested in reading along? I would love to discuss with a smaller group too. Perhaps we could make a Facebook page to facilitate.

I also just finished Witness to Love which I wrote a lengthy review of last week. This ministry is wonderful and sorely needed.

I’ll be starting Brene Brown’s The Gifts of Imperfection later this week as it finally came in from the library.

three-of-three-cardigans

Thinking and Thinking: About Christmas gifting. I have a dozen or more projects that I would like to accomplish for gifting so I’m getting my ducks in a row to get things started. So much to do, so little time. 😉 It really is coming up on us quickly!

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Pondering: Still drinking in all the words of our Holy Father, Pope Francis, from his visit last week. I’m hoping to write a post of a few of my favorite quotes, but in the meantime, here is one:

“And if at times our efforts and works seem to fail and produce no fruit, we need to remember that we are followers of Jesus, and His life, humanly speaking, ended in failure, in the failure of the cross.”

~ from Vespers at St. Patrick’s Cathedral

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Carefully Cultivating Rhythm: We are trying to get the girls on a better sleeping schedule. Bedtime has been a little too flexible as of late and it is making them extra tired and cranky. Better nighttime rest, also means better naps–something all of us appreciate.

baby-cardigan

Creating By Hand: Still finishing up my series of three sweaters using the In Threes Baby Cardigan pattern. I’m about halfway through my last one–a red one for Evelyn. I can finally share the newborn one I made for my sister-in-law that I gifted her this weekend at her shower. There is something so sweet and precious about tiny knits, particularly ones in pink for baby girls.

Also, made a little blanket with starburst stitching on the edge. I have a few more blankets for little babes in the queue this week.

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Learning Lessons In: Patience. Mine has been a little thin the past few weeks, so I’m learning what I need to say ‘no’ to in order to reduce the anxiety which decreases it.

Encouraging Learning In: Also, patience? 😉 These little gals want it…and they want it NOW!

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Crafting in the Kitchen: Moving into a rhythm of Fall foods–apples, squash, pumpkins, etc. Later this week, we’ll having one of my favorites–stuffed acorn squash–which I will share the recipe for soon.

To Be Fit and Happy: My brother, Raphael, is on the same crew team that I was in high school. This past weekend, his team hosted a pancake row, where they invite family members for a little breakfast and a chance to jump in one of the boats and try their hand at rowing for a mile or so. He invited me to come along and I jumped at the chance! I hadn’t been on the water since high school, and I do love it so. I wish there was a Masters team nearby that I could join. Perhaps some day. 🙂

rowingLoving the Moments: We’ve witnessed some great moments of childlike faith from Evey the past few weeks and it is so inspiring, both from a parenting aspect and in my own walk of faith. Just yesterday, we were going to see the Supermoon eclipse but there was some cloud cover which was going to make it very difficult to see the moon. We told Evey that she should ask Jesus to move the clouds so we could see it better. She let out a sweet prayer and, sure enough, the clouds moved just at the moment of total eclipse. On the way home, she kept peeking out the window of the car, hoping to catch another glimpse of the moon but all the city lights were making it rather difficult. She says from the back seat, “Jesus, could you please move the lights so we could see the moon?” 😀

supermoon eclipse

Living the Liturgy: Two great saints celebrated this week — St. Therese of Lisieux on October 1st and St. Francis on October 4th. I picked up a few roses at the store for the Little Flower’s feast. I’m sure we’ll have a little treat the evening of after our dinner. St. Francis loved animals and nature, so perhaps we’ll go for a little hike on Sunday.

fall-flowers

Planning for the Week Ahead: Two of my friends had babies this month and we are on dinner duty this week for their families. One we have yet to meet so are looking forward to seeing her. Our week of the letter ‘T’ involves a trip to the train museum tomorrow after riding the train down to Sacramento. So much fun with choo-choos this week! Also, about to start a ‘t’ea party with my sweet girls….

Gathering My Thoughts ~ Extra Time with Daddy

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Outside my window: We were so blessed last week with daytime temperatures in the 70s and 80s. Today, summer comes back with a vengeance, soaring into the 100s by Thursday. Ugh. Is the splash pad still open?

Listening To: The ever-classic Ray Charles–Lucie’s choice. She very emphatically said no to the quieter hymns I started to play. Girl likes jazzy music.

Clothing Myself In: Workout clothes. I dressed in these out of my pjs when we went to the store earlier this morning with the intention that it would remind me to get my workout out done when I got home. It’s mid- afternoon and it still hasn’t happened.

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Talking With My Children About These Books: We are on letter “M” this week in our lessons. Our selection for the week is: First Pictures of Mary by Maite Roche, Madeline by Ludwig Behelmans, The Mitten by Jan Brett, The Town Mouse and the County Mouse by Helen Ward, and Mouse Paint by Ellen Stoll Walsh. This is the first week that our selection is entirely composed of books I’ve read before — all great ones too! We may add on some others before the week is out.

I can’t speak highly enough of Maite Roche’s books. {The first one listed.} They are published through Ignatius Press. We currently have the Easter one and My First Prayers for the Family, but hope to add her others over time. She is a French writer so they are all translated from the original language.

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In My Own Reading: I’m looking forward this week to starting Emily Freeman’s latest book, Simply Tuesday. I read A Million Little Ways about a year ago, and absolutely loved it. She has such a beautiful way of assisting her reader find depth and meaning to their life, even those who perform the simplest and most mundane of tasks.

Thinking and Thinking: With the way the polls are leaning currently, the upcoming presidential election has me feeling quite uneasy. What our country thinks is acceptable {even if they are not satisfied with the current governance} is scary to me. Even if they are not satisfied with the current governance–or the last few presidents’ terms–we can’t just elect somebody because they sway the opposite direction and oppose what we don’t like. We have to choose what is right and good.  A college professor of mine wrote a great little post titled ‘When Scoundrels are Honored‘ that reflects a bit on this.

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Practicing the letter “G” {we’re working on it ;)}

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Glitter paints during “G” week

Pondering: “What is the goal of Catholic education in the midst of the flurry of screens and devices that bring the modern world to our fingertips? It is to keep the human person at the center of our enterprise. The world of information may be only a swipe away, but we should know better than to think it is the most important world. That honor goes to a world made of flesh and spirit, of encounter and conversation. That world must guide our schools, and everything else must follow from it.” from ‘Catholic Education in the Digital Age’

Carefully Cultivating Rhythm: This transition back and forth between summer and fall means a transition of schedules so we’re fluctuation between the two and suffering a bit of exhaustion from it. Looking forward to the full switch into cooler weather, warmer foods, a little more time relaxing indoors.

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Creating By Hand: I’m on my second of three sweaters using the fabulous In Threes Cardigan pattern. The current one is for Lucie. After finishing the first for my sweet niece {soon to be here next month!}, I took the girls to the knitting shop to pick out colors for ones of their own. Lucie fell asleep on the way, so Evelyn took over the duty of choosing colors. She picked a beautiful blue with flecks of green and purple for Lucie and a radiant red for herself. I’m about 3/4 done with Lucie’s, then I’ll get to work on Evey’s and hopefully be done before the cool weather hits. {Linking up with Ginny’s #yarnalong — be sure to check out more inspiring projects there!}

Learning Lessons In: Finding ways to make time for what is truly important and fulfilling for me and my family. I’ve read Gretchen Rubin’s Happier at Home but had forgotten about her idea of the Power Hour. Anne writes here about how she uses that hour weekly to dive deeper into things that enrich herself. I’ve been trying for several months now to delve deeper into my photography, but have been unsuccessful so far. I’m going to set an hour each week, starting this week, to make this happen. It is important to me so I need to make it actually so.

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Encouraging Learning In: Not standing on furniture. My little daredevil is turning up the heat, standing on chairs, tables…rolling cars! She doesn’t seem to understand the consequences even when she tumbles, so I’m hoping something influences her in a positive way!

Crafting in the Kitchen: We’re enjoying the tomatoes from the market as my plants have been growing horribly this year. We really enjoy this stuffed chicken using tomatoes and feta that I shared last week. Thursday I will share a favorite pancake recipe that will get you inspired and excited for the autumn. We’ve made it twice already in the past week.

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To Be Fit and Happy: I was doing well in this department but have been slacking off over the past week. I need to find an activity that I can interchange with the Barre3 classes. I’m hoping to go running once or twice a week once the evening temperatures have dropped a bit.

Loving the Moments: We enjoyed a three-day weekend with Steve home. It is such a joy for me to witness the moments he is able to spend bonding with the girls. They love their daddy so much. Both run, shouting with glee, to greet him when he walks in the door every evening from work. Many times, Lucie prefers his company to mine. They snuggle on the couch and sometimes watch funny animal scenes on his iPad. Evey always gets him to build the best forts and they read together inside. Such wonderful moments to witness. <3

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Living the Liturgy: Today is the feast of the Nativity of Mary. We will be enjoying vanilla ice cream {pure — in honor the Virgin Mary} to celebrate.

Planning for the Week Ahead: As mentioned earlier, it is going to be super hot this week so we’ll be spending the majority of time inside {unless we can find a good splash pad that’s still open}. We’ll send a meal to a friend who just had a baby late last week. We’ll probably make milkshakes and eat popsicles. And I’m hoping to get a bit of writing in. I’ve been a little “dry” these past few weeks….hoping for inspiration!

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Taken after I wrote the post…Happy Birthday to Mary, she sang! 🙂 

Gathering My Thoughts : Reading, Recipes, and Relaxation

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Outside my window: Heat, heat, and more heat. This week is a scorcher. We’ve had some fairly mild weather this summer, minus a series of a few days here and there. I’m grateful. And I’m ready for the Fall. The only good thing about this heat is that it might make my tomatoes turn red. Here’s to hoping.

Listening To: My husband and daughter make pizza for dinner. She asks so many questions about everything. I’m glad he’s fielding them for now as my brain hurts a little from the continual bombardment throughout the day. 🙂

Clothing Myself In: My favorite blue skirt {similar to this one} and tank top {this one but it’s sold out!}. Light and breezy to stay cool in this heat.

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Talking With My Children About These Books: We are starting on the 26 Letters to Heaven curriculum {loosely} this week. Evey has been showing a strong interest in learning letters so I decided to seek out a easygoing curriculum that would allow me to introduce them better to her. I’m planning to do another post in the next week or so about books I’m using for education with her and my reasons for doing so.

We’re not doing the letters in order. “B” is the letter of the week. Our books for the week are: Blueberries for Sal by Robert McCloskey, Angelina Ballerina by Katherine Holabird, Berlioz the Bear by Jan Brett, The Tale of Benjamin Bunny by Beatrix Potter, Seven Hungry Babies by Candace Fleming, Beach by Elisha Cooper, Baby Bear Sees Blue by Ashley Wolff.

Have any others we should add??

In My Own Reading: Over the past week or so I’ve binge-read two novels: The Orphan Train and The Girl On the Train. The fact that they both have to do with trains didn’t occur to me until I picked up the second to read it. As with a lot of my pleasure reading these days, both of these came recommended by Anne Bogel of Modern Mrs. Darcy. The first was also recommended strongly by my mother, hence, it ended up as my choice in the category of “a book recommended by your mother” in the Reading Challenge. It was fantastic. It follows the story of a young, orphaned Irish girl when she is shipped to the Midwest to be adopted and tells of the life she found when she got there. It is interwoven with the story of a contemporary orphan. Highly recommended now by me too! 5 out of 5 stars.

The Girl on the Train is a high-speed thriller {you see what I did there?} which I sped through in a matter of 24 hours. I was a bit hesitant to read this when I saw it listed as a thriller as I am not too fond of blood and guts and crazy psychological yuckiness, but it was pretty easy to stomach and the plot pulled me right along to the end. 4 out of 5 stars.

Thinking and Thinking: About the Autumn and all the wonderful flavors of the season that will soon be coming. {Despite the fact we still haven’t harvested any of our tomatoes yet this year. They’re on the slow boat.}

I’m also very excited about all the crafts and such I’ve been planning to do with Evelyn. Her imagination is really taking off and she loves creating and crafting {I’ve got a kindred spirit. ;)} so we’re going to go at as many as we can stand! 🙂

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Pondering: 

“It is God himself who teaches us the importance of dedicating time to contemplating and enjoying the fruits of our labours, not only in our employment or profession, but through every action by which we as men and women cooperate in God’s creative work, even in times of difficulty. In the workplace too, we celebrate – a birthday, a marriage, a new baby, a farewell or a welcome. True moments of celebration make us pause from our work, because they remind us that we are made in the image and likeness of God, who is not a slave to work, but the Lord of work! And so we must never be slaves to work but rather its master!

Moments of rest, especially on Sunday, are sacred because in them we find God. The Sunday Eucharist brings to our celebrations every grace of Jesus Christ: his presence, his love and his sacrifice; his forming us into a community, and his way of being with us. Everything is transfigured by his grace: work, family, the joys and trials of each day, even our sufferings and death. May we always recognize the family as the privileged place to understand, guide and sustain the gifts which arise from our celebrations, especially the Sunday Eucharist.”

~Pope Francis, General Audience, August 12, 2015

Carefully Cultivating Rhythm: Since we’re in the space between summer and Fall, we’re sticking to our summer routine here for a little while longer still since the sun is up a bit earlier. It also stays hot here often into the early days of October. Early mornings are spent outside in the {semi}fresh air, afternoons indoors in air conditioning crafting, watching a show or two, prepping for dinner, etc. I’ve enjoyed the rhythms of our days this summer, hoping to find a similar one that works this Fall.

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Creating By Hand: Knitting tends to be a seasonal craft for me. So, since the cooler weather will be upon us soon, I’ve busted out my stash. There are a few babies making an appearance within the next couple months so a few items for them are first up on my list.

I found a fabulous little cap-sleeve sweater I’m creating. I’m about halfway done now. If it continues as well as it has so far, I will probably make both of the girls ones for the cooler months. {Joining up with Ginny’s Yarn Along this week. Join us if you like to knit or crochet too!}

Learning Lessons In: Balance. Time is precious. I want to use it wisely. Figuring out priorities and making sure I’m giving of myself in the places where God most wants me to be.

Encouraging Learning In: Sweeping. Evelyn insisted on a dustpan and broom to take home with her when we were shopping at Ikea last week, so she’ll be in charge of that chore…once she learns it is more than just brushing things around the room. 😉

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Crafting in the Kitchen: I’ve begun posting weekly recipes focused around what is in season on Thursdays here on the blog.

A few recipes to use up the last of that summer produce include: Breakfast Peach Crisp, Salmon Bread Salad, Blueberry Banana Bread Muffins, and Tortellini Salad with Avocado and Broccoli.

To Be Fit and Happy: I was having a really hard time fitting exercise into my days, really just getting motivated to get it done. But I revived an exercise accountability group on Facebook that I had with a few friends, and it’s helped me get my backside in gear a little more frequently. I’ve been doing the Barre3 workouts 3 times a week. I’m hoping to up that to 4 or 5 within the next week or so. I think part of the problem was I was trying to do too much to begin {I’m really out of shape} and starting out slow, not doing back-to-back days, has helped me immensely in wanting to do it, rather than forcing myself.

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Loving the Moments: To go along with our “schooling” I purchased Evelyn a new easel. She loves the whiteboard. Literally spends an hour or more every day doodling there. She draws a lot on paper too, but an interesting thing happened when she began drawing vertically: she’s drawing realistic figures! She made me a cow the other day and began adding accessories and such to it, naming each thing. It was quite discernible. This is the first I’ve seen her do this. I love to witness these milestones! 🙂

Living the Liturgy: This coming Sunday is the Feast of St. Rose who is a patron of both Evelyn and myself {her middle name, my Confirmation saint}. We’ll celebrate by going to Mass and enjoying Root Beer floats for dinner that evening. If you couldn’t guess, our letter next week will be “R”. I need to think of a good “R” food to serve for dinner….

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Planning for the Week Ahead: We’re about halfway through {I started writing this on Tuesday but the time gets away from me}. We have dance tomorrow, I’ll enjoy our monthly dinner together with my mom in the evening, then winding down to the weekend, Steve and I are looking forward to a much-anticipated date a local winery where we’ll be savoring a tasting-and-pairing menu alongside a tour.

 

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